The Right Guys are attracted to the Right Things. Trust me.

So many of my female friends ask me the same thing “why do I attract all the wrong guys?”

In an era when everyone seems to be obsessed with how they look, I think maybe we have lost touch with the importance of what we do….and I’m not talking about your job.  As long as you don’t do something self destructive, you could be anything from a barista to the chairman of Microsoft and I’m pretty certain it wouldn’t alter the opinion of any guy worth his salt.  I’m talking about what you do with your time.

There are certain hobbies that are just damn sexy as hell.  It can’t be a complete surprise to hear this.  Most girls have their own list of things they find attractive in a guy, we all know the stereotypes, Athlete, Rock Star, Actor, etc…..but what are the equivalent pastimes from a man’s point of view?

I can’t speak for every guy, but for me, there are three.  If she rides a motorcycle, surfs, or plays golf, I’m in big trouble.  Proficiency at any one of those activities instantly adds 5 points on a scale from 1 to 10.  Ride your motorcycle to the golf course on your way home from surfing?  You are already a 15 out of 10 in my books.  Plus it just makes you more interesting.  Straight up.

Don’t believe me?

Go to youtube and search for girl riding a motorcycle.  See if you can find anything that doesn’t have tens, if not hundreds of thousands of views.

I knew two girls who were best friends.  One of them wanted to buy a motorcycle, the other wanted to get her boobs done.  They both worked and saved for nearly a year, and they both got what they wanted at about the same time.  A few months later when I ran into them and asked how it was going, the girl with the bike said “amazing” and the girl with the boobs said “I’m pissed”.  Then she explained that her friend with the bike was getting “way more attention” than she was.  Now she wanted a bike too!  I can’t argue with that.  There are few things in this world hotter than a cool girl, getting off a cool bike, and doing the hair shake out thing as she removes her helmet.  Sorry, but a bit of cleavage can’t compete with that.  You know what I’m talking about.  

Plus in golf you have the fashion.  Let's face it, most ladies golf outfits are beyond cute,  and in surfing you are wearing a swimsuit.  Is it any wonder these particular hobbies have us drooling?  Not to mention that all three are perfect for travelling, which I have still never met a girl who didn't name that among her list of things she likes to do.

Last January, when Miss Canada, Chanel Beckenlehner stepped out of the crowd and crushed a drive at Doral during the Miss Universe pageant (pictured left), the looks on the faces of all the men (including Donald Trump) tells you everything you need to know.  It also got more media coverage than the actual crowing of the winner.  I can't add much to that, but maybe keep it in mind.  Spend a bit less time in front of the mirror, and a bit more time out there doing things that you love.  You will be happier, healthier, and that ALWAYS makes ANYONE more attractive.